You need to deal with the root cause of your stress to break the negative cycle. When i/we are kissing, there was a guard/a police who sees us that where having fun. Some of the repeated unusual elements are arguably metaphorical as well, as when rooms look slightly different than in reality or are blends of two places in which they lived. This cognitive view contrasts sharply with the clinically derived theories of freud (1900) and jung (1974) on the one hand and with hobson’s physiologically based activation-synthesis theory on the other (hobson, 2002; hobson & mccarley, 1977; hobson, pace-schott, & stickgold, 2000).
Dreaming as the embodiment of thoughts:
In one she pushes him away from her as he tries to kiss her, and in the other she throws “a ham or a roast” at him. She appears as she had as a young woman. It seems to express the kind of misunderstandings that couples often experience: