Therefore consider the members of your earthly body as dead to immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and greed, which amounts to idolatry. Even when i have turned away from relationship with god and sought ecstasy on my own terms, i can always return to him in the intimacy of prayer and penitence. Confess this sin first to god, then go to a committed christian you trust, such as your pastor. Were it not for our perverted imaginations and lustful sense of expectation, our bodies would not cause us much trouble. It’s important to acknowledge these divergences in opinion before saying anything further on the subject. In connection with this last thought, it’s important to add that masturbation, due to the powerful hormonal and psychological components of human sexual behavior, can often become extremely addictive.
Hebrews as well as the rest of the scriptures show us that god restricts all sexual relations to be between a man and woman in marriage. According to this passage, jesus did what he saw his father do.